Side Hustles & Smart Money: Earning Your Way Out of Debt

This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Rebuilding

There’s a certain kind of survival mode that only some people understand. The kind where you count change before buying milk. Where you skip meals so your kids can eat. Where you try not to open your email because you know the bills are sitting there, unpaid. For those of us who’ve been there—or are there now—talking about “earning extra income” or “launching a side hustle” doesn’t feel trendy. It feels necessary. But here’s what…

Why Is It So Hard to Pay Off Your Credit Card? (Part 3)

This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Quicksand

Part 3: Lifestyle Creep — The Slow Drift That Becomes the Avalanche You had a few splurges. Then came the crisis—car repairs, a medical bill, a stretch of unemployment. You figured you’d bounce back. But now, the bounce isn’t happening. And without fully realizing it, your lifestyle—the routines, the spending patterns, the monthly “norms”—has quietly expanded. At the same time, the world around you has shifted. And holding steady now costs more than it used…

Why Organizations Must Lead the Way on Workplace Communication

This entry is part 9 of 9 in the series Workplace Success

When managers handle difficult conversations well, it builds trust. But when organizations set the stage for those conversations to happen with clarity and consistency—it builds culture. Workplace stress doesn’t start with one tough conversation. Often, it stems from unclear expectations, inconsistent leadership practices, or the feeling that issues are handled differently across departments. That’s why the responsibility for healthy communication doesn’t rest solely on individual managers—it belongs to the entire organization. Why It Matters at…

Resetting After a Difficult Workplace Conversation

This entry is part 8 of 9 in the series Workplace Success

Protecting Both Workplace Harmony and Personal Stability Tough conversations are inevitable in any workplace. Even when handled with the best intentions, they can leave a lingering tension—an awkwardness you can’t quite shake. Maybe you’re second-guessing your tone. Maybe the conversation revealed an uncomfortable truth. Or maybe things just feel… off. Here’s the truth: Difficult conversations don’t mean a relationship is broken. Often, they signal that you’re engaging with real challenges—the kind that make teams stronger,…

A Decade of Dollars, Discipline, and Dodging Debt in the U.S. Army

This entry is part 1 of 1 in the series Military Life

I joined the United States Army at the tender age of 20, armed with youthful enthusiasm, a wife, and a baby on the way. I also joined as an E1—meaning I made about enough money to afford socks, maybe. Back then, pay for junior enlisted was even worse than it is today! Still, for all its quirks, Army life had its perks. No matter where Uncle Sam dropped us, we had guaranteed food, housing, and…

Why Is It So Hard to Pay Off Your Credit Card? (Part 2)

This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Quicksand

Part 2: Crisis Spending — When “No” Isn’t an Option In Part 1, we talked about the “Yes Trap”—how seeing a generous available balance on your credit card can flip your inner script from “Can I afford this?” to “Why not?” It usually starts with a few small splurges: You’ve had a long week, so you treat yourself to dinner out—twice. You finally grab those concert tickets before they sell out. That coat you’ve been…

From Debt to Entrepreneurship

This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Rebuilding

How Financial Literacy Fuels Business Success For many of us, the journey into entrepreneurship doesn’t begin with a bold vision or a polished business plan. It begins with survival. It begins in the aftermath of loss—sometimes a job, a marriage, a home, or a sense of self. It begins in the quiet moments when you realize that the life you had is gone, and something new needs to be built from the ground up. Often,…

When a Workplace Conversation Goes Sideways

This entry is part 7 of 9 in the series Workplace Success

When a Workplace Conversation Goes Sideways We all experience moments at work that leave us reeling—tense conversations, poorly delivered feedback, or a comment that just didn’t sit right. Maybe your manager was rushed. Maybe the tone felt off, or something about the message struck a nerve. Whatever the reason, it’s okay to feel unsettled. If a workplace conversation goes sideways, what you’re feeling in the aftermath—frustration, confusion, hurt—is normal. It doesn’t make you unprofessional. It…

Why Don’t We Talk About Money?

This entry is part 8 of 8 in the series Random Thoughts for Improving Wellness

Talking Will Lead To A Healthier Relationship With Your Money We’ve come a long way as a society when it comes to discussing the once-undiscussable. There was a time when speaking openly about race was considered inappropriate. Talking about sex? Off-limits. Identity, orientation, mental health—each of these topics, once shrouded in stigma, have gradually made their way into the light through honest, collective conversation. But there’s one subject that continues to live in the shadows,…

Why Is It So Hard to Pay Off Your Credit Card?

This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series Quicksand

Part 1: The “Yes” Trap — How Available Balance Leads to Debt Quicksand You’re making payments. You’re trying to get ahead. But no matter how often you chip away at your credit card, it feels like you’re stuck. Why is it so hard to pay it off? Here’s the truth: credit cards are designed like quicksand. Easy to step into. Hard to climb out of. And the deeper you go, the more stuck in it…